The Battle for Parenting Time: Why Ohio's House Bill 14 Supports the Best Interests of Children

The Battle for Parenting Time: Why Ohio's House Bill 14 Supports the Best Interests of Children

When parents decide to part ways, one of the most critical and often contentious issues they face is determining how to share parenting time with their children. The question of whether children should have equal access to both parents after a separation is a topic of great debate. In Ohio, House Bill 14, also known as the "Children Need Both Parents Bill," seeks to establish equal shared parenting as the default arrangement. This legislation has sparked discussions about the importance of involving both parents in a child's life and addressing concerns regarding domestic violence and child safety.

Why Equal Shared Parenting Matters

  1. The Best Interests of the Child

The primary goal of any custody arrangement should be the best interests of the child. Research consistently shows that children benefit from having both parents actively involved in their lives, assuming both parents are fit and loving caregivers. Shared parenting allows children to maintain strong bonds with both their mother and father, which can contribute to their emotional well-being and development.

  1. Addressing Concerns about Domestic Violence and Child Abuse

One of the main arguments against equal shared parenting is the fear that it may endanger women and children, particularly in cases involving domestic violence or child abuse. However, House Bill 14 explicitly addresses this concern by requiring the court to consider evidence of abuse when making custody determinations. If credible evidence is presented that equal parenting time would be detrimental to the child due to abuse or domestic violence, the court can and should take appropriate actions to protect the child.

  1. Non-Gendered Nature of Abuse

It's essential to recognize that abuse and domestic violence are not gendered issues. Data shows that both mothers and fathers can be perpetrators or victims of abuse at similar rates. An equal presumption of shared parenting recognizes this reality and ensures that both parents are evaluated based on their individual merits rather than stereotypes.

  1. Reducing Domestic Violence and Abuse

Surprisingly, communities with shared parenting presumptions have reported a reduction in domestic violence and abuse cases. This counterintuitive effect may be due to several factors, including increased accountability for both parents, reduced conflict stemming from custody battles, and greater opportunities for cooperation and communication between parents.

  1. Preventing Parental Alienation

Minimizing the involvement of a loving and healthy parent can also be a form of emotional abuse known as parental alienation. Allowing both parents to have equal access to their children helps prevent such harmful behavior, which can have long-lasting negative effects on a child's mental and emotional well-being.


Ohio House Bill 14, the "Children Need Both Parents Bill," is a crucial piece of legislation that recognizes the importance of involving both parents in a child's life after a separation. By addressing concerns about domestic violence and child abuse while promoting shared parenting, this bill aims to protect the best interests of children. It's essential to support legislation that ensures children have the opportunity to maintain meaningful relationships with both parents, as long as it is safe and in their best interests.

If you believe that House Bill 14 is in the best interest of children, please consider contacting your state representative and senator to express your support for this legislation. It is through informed and thoughtful advocacy that we can create a legal framework that prioritizes the well-being of our children and strengthens the bonds they share with both their mothers and fathers.

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